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Society is loveless and people have very wrong notions about love. First they don’t get love and if sometimes they do, they are not satisfied by it because they have great perfectionistic ideals, inhuman ideals…

If you love a man, he will perspire and his perspiration stinks. If you love a man you will not like a thousand and one things in him . . . sometimes very small things. You cannot get a perfect man.
Not are you perfect nobody is perfect: there are limitations, frailties. The first difficulty is that people are loveless, so nobody knows how to love.

The second difficulty is that people have been brought up on romantic ideas of love – fairy love, airy fairy, abstract, dreamy – not real, not authentic, not actual.

If you have that idea, then even if you find a lover you will be frustrated sooner or later..So drop all romantic ideas – they are barriers in love.
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Romantic ideas are very poisonous; they are part of the same neurotic society. A loveless society creates romantic ideas about love. That is part of the same game, it comes in the same package. First, make people loveless, and then give them such ideals that they cannot fulfill them so they remain always hung up, just in limbo.

Without love, they suffer; with love, they suffer – suffering is certain.
A man of understanding, without love, enjoys his aloneness – in love, enjoys relationships; he enjoys all the time!

A foolish person alone feels lonely, is frustrated – together, is never happy because the other is imperfect.

So don’t be foolish – just be intelligent! Your problem will be solved only by creating a little intelligence . . . and it is there! ..